Easy Does It

I am a 41yo gay man, a very amateur photographer in recovery.


My Life, Living with HIV and Living Clean in New York City.

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Posts regarding addiction (articles I have found; my opinions; my own experiences as a recovering addict)

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    Someday we will stop using any and all forms of this ugly word… it doesn’t aid us… it doesn’t lift us up. [photo found on a tumblr blog] #letsriseabove

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    I’ve Made My Bed

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    My bio… House of Aviance




    Haitian mother protecting her son in Dominican Republic

    the hordest picture out rn

    it be like that tho.

    yesyesyesyesyesyesyeysyes I live for this photo.

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    Parkour Training #2

    Parkour Training

    Why do black people straighten their hair if non-black people can't get corn row/ box braid/ whatever you consider a "black" hairstyle





    why do white people always try to make this non-point false equivalence when they know these are two completely different realities that don’t compare on any plane whatsoever

    white people not only make black people hate their hair at an individual emotional level but literally at a systemic level in which black people are and have been for the last century unable to get jobs, attend colleges, enlist in the armed forces, etc. because of the treatment of their natural hair. there literally is nothing white people have to compare…

    white people are not getting box braids because they feel pressured to, or out of fear that they won’t have access to a job or anything, but instead because they know it’s an “edgy black people thing” that they’re doing to be counter culture and subversive. there is literally no pressure on earth for anyone INCLUDING BLACK PEOPLE to worship or utilize Black hairstyles or Black hair in its natural state and you fucking know it. It’s literally the complete opposite for white hair. grow up

    white people are not gelling down baby hairs for social mobility or financial security or comfort or assimilation.

    credit to black—lamb

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      12 year old Vanessa VanDyke is being threatened with expulsion from Faith Christian Academy in Orlando unless she cuts her natural hair.

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    Read the ads

    "MEN WHO GO PLACES" "WAS IT HER RESUME OR HER RELAXER?" white people don’t have ads telling them "you will not be successful in life unless you have cornrows and box braids with gelled down baby hairs" because that isn’t the case. address this in the context of reality, maybe???

    All of this. ALL OF THIS. READ THIS ^^^^^^

    White people didn’t invent straight hair either. There are Black people with straight hair. That’s not a “White style”.

    Because ALL of this needs to be on everyone’s page.

    Her #Aviance Story. #Legendary 

    "I completely rejected everything masculine, because I view myself as a completely effeminate girl…"


    When trying to be of some service backfires and you are called things that are far from your true self do not discourage; transform the negative into a positive force and continue to be of service.

    Christian L.

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